This post is written to link with Five Minute Friday: write for five minutes on a one-word prompt. The prompt today is “conclude.”
As 2020 comes to an end, I’m not sure what to conclude. In fact, I don’t think I’m ready to conclude anything.
One of the things that struck me early in the pandemic was the certainty some Christians seemed to have about why God was allowing this to happen and how he was working in it. In some ways I felt slightly jealous of the certainty they seemed to have, but I also felt irritated because I didn’t necessarily agree with their conclusions.
Maybe their mistake was taking what God was teaching them personally and trying to apply it universally. I just remember the frustration I felt in April and May when I was repeatedly hearing people draw general conclusions that I didn’t feel applied to me or my situation at all.
Looking back, I understand – everything felt out of control, people wanted some kind of certainty, they wanted to believe that God was still there and still working for good. They wanted to understand what he was doing.
But while I do believe God was (and is) still there and working for good, I wouldn’t presume to suggest how or jump to any conclusion. A lot of this year, for me, has been about learning to live with the mystery and uncertainty.
Over the last week or so, as we come towards the end of the year, I’ve heard several people reflect back on 2020 and speak of what God has been doing in their lives and how he’s been teaching them through all this. That’s amazing, and I celebrate all he has done, but, personally, I’m still in that same place of no conclusions.
I can tell you things God has taught me in 2020 and I can give examples of where I’ve seen him at work, but I’m not yet in a place where I can tie it all in a neat bow and tell you that I understand his purpose in all of this. Maybe one day, looking back, but not for now.
And I’m ok with that. Several times this year, I’ve been drawn back to Jesus’ words to Peter when he washes his feet at the Last Supper:
“You don’t understand now what I am doing, but someday you will.” (John 13:7 NLT)
For now, no conclusions.
I also want to join the rest of the Five Minute Friday community in paying tribute to Joe Siccardi who passed away this week. Joe was a valued member of the community, always full of wisdom and encouragement, and he will be sadly missed. You can read Joe’s blog here, and if you have a moment, please do pray for his family.
I can’t wait to look back on this year with clarity someday, seeing all God was up to! Thanks for writing!
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Thanks, Julie! Yes, it will be interesting to see how we think of 2020 when we look back in a few years!
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Very honest Lesley. Thank you. Xx
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Thanks, Fiona! xxx
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Yep … you’re so right, friend. You just can’t tie this up in a bow and be done with it.
He’s still at work …
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Thanks, Linda! It will be interesting to see how we look back on this time in the future.
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You made me think of Mary…
Mary was a peasant girl
and knew how lambs were born,
but in the angel’s colour-swirl
she must have felt quite torn
to understand that she would carry
a child, but knew no man;
yes, it was extraordinary,
but what about her plan
to be Joseph’s wedded wife
when she could not hide
the God-ordained immaculate life
that would grow and live inside
and raise the harsh suspicious brows
of those who would oppose their vows?
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Great poem, Andrew! As confusing as 2020 has been it must have been even more confusing for Mary to figure it out for herself as well as having to deal with people jumping to the wrong conclusions!
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I don’t think any of us are in the same place with God at the same time. We are all made uniquely and our relationship with him is unique to us too. No one’s relationship with God is the same as anyone else’s. We all feel and reflect on 2020 and others things in our own ways. There is no bow. Hope this makes sense. Merry Christmas x
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Thanks, Loretta! Yes, it makes sense. I think God can use the same circumstances to teach us different things. Merry Christmas to you too! x
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I love the verse you ended with. I believe it sums up this year very nicely for me as well. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🙂
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Thanks for reading!
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Yes, me, too! “A lot of this year, for me, has been about learning to live with the mystery and uncertainty.” I’m actually thinking of using “Uncertainty” as my one word for 2021! 🙂 Hope you have a blessed Christmas, Lesley.
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That would be an interesting word for the year, and probably very appropriate! Hope you have a lovely Christmas too!
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This is so true! And it’s totally ok to just have made it through this crazy year!
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Thanks, Tara! Yes, making it through is a victory in itself!
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Amen, so very well spoken. I agree with what you have said. Thank you for sharing such a lovely and encouraging post. many blessings to you.
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Thanks, Paula! I’m glad it encouraged you. Blessings to you too!
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I can certainly tell you things that God has taught me in 2020 and where I’ve seen His hand of blessing (I think I did in my post…) but I don’t expect ‘to tie it all in a neat bow and understand His purpose in all of this.’ And I think that is one of the things I’ve been learning, where trust has to replace understanding, and to hold plans lightly. I was just looking at my 2021 diary yesterday and starting to plan my writing for the beginning of the year, when the post came with a summons for jury service! I think God was whispering something to me there…. 🙂
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Yes, I think 2020 has taught us all that we are not as much in control of our plans as we might like to think!
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I agree, Lesley. None of us can know all God’s reasons for all He has allowed this year. But I know He has been at work behind the scenes. I think trusting in the dark, when nothing makes sense, is a valuable lesson.
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Thanks, Barbara! Yes, I think it deepens our faith when we can keep trusting in God even when we can’t understand.
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Love this post, and can so relate. You could have been describing my thoughts.
Great verse at the end too. Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks, Sandra!
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