This post is written to link with Five Minute Friday: write for five minutes on a one-word prompt. The prompt today is “reach.”

In this strange world of random food shortages, I was delighted to see that there were a few cartons of milk on the shelf.
Only one problem – they were right at the back and I couldn’t reach.
It’s the story of my life. Supermarkets are not designed for small people.
I can’t count the number of times I’ve had to climb the shelves or have a kind shop worker come to my aid, but this time there was no way to get it and no-one else in sight.
I hovered in the aisle for a couple of minutes until another customer headed in my direction. He looked tall enough to help, and, although asking strangers to help is not something I feel particularly comfortable about, I wanted that milk.
I asked if he could get one for me and he was happy to help. I marvelled at the ease with which he reached to the back of the top shelf. Then he smiled and picked up another carton for himself: “Thanks, I hadn’t seen that there. I need one too.”
It was an encouraging reminder that we need each other, that we are not meant to live life independently. He brought the height and I brought the observation skills, but by working together we both got what we needed.
It can take courage to reach out to others – either to ask for help or to offer help – but sometimes it can bring blessing on both sides.
After all, working together is how God designed life to work: “Yes, there are many parts, but only one body. The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.”” (1 Corinthians 12:20-21 NLT)
Prop forwards can have trouble, too.
Automobiles are not designed
for rugger-monsters just like me,
and if you ride with me you’ll find
together’s not the place to be,
for you’ll be squashed against the door,
and it’s worse if you’re in back,
for my seat takes all your floor,
slid hard against its rearward track.
Controls were not made for these hands
with fingers like banana-bunch
which so often unseen land
on what can only be a hunch
to turn full chat the radio
when aircon’s where I sought to go.
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I guess there are pros and cons whatever height you are!
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I like your insight on this post and your daring to reach out. God is always near. FMF friend, Mitzy
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Thanks, Mitzy!
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Ha! I have that same problem Leslie!
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🙂
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Being a little taller, I love when people ask for help in reaching for something, especially in supermarkets. It always provided a bit of conversation which made my shopping more interesting. You are so right – we all need one another so may we be willing to reach out to one another!
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It can be a good way to open up conversation, and it’s certainly a helpful reminder that we need each other.
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A great example of how each of us has different gifts that can be used to help one another, Lesley. It’s hard for me to ask for help, too, but I’m working on it. I think it actually makes the other person feel more needed and useful. 🙂 Love and blessings to you!
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Thanks, Trudy! Yes, I think people often like to be asked for help. I’m usually happy to help when someone asks me and I imagine most others feel the same. Love and blessings to you too!
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your post made me smile… thank you, I needed that after a long hard day.
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Thanks, Annette! I’m sorry you’ve had a hard day but glad it made you smile.
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It’s hard to ask for help for sure, but it does seem that my vulnerability opens the door for other people to ask for help or find something they need. Great points!
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Thanks, Lisa!
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Lesley, this is so true. I’ve reached out to strangers in the grocery store too. And your right we do need one another. Thanks for sharing this message.
FMF#19
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Thanks, Paula! I appreciate your comment.
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I have to ask for help for those things high on the shelves too. 🙂 Last week someone asked my husband for help, but I noticed that he wasn’t but about an inch taller than the woman who asked him. lol. Nonetheless, he was able to reach the item for her, and got one for me too. 🙂 (I can’t even remember now what it was!)
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Sometimes that inch of height can make a big difference! 🙂
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That’s me too. I’m almost always needing to ask for help reaching stuff in the grocery store.
Your encounter with the tall man who reached the milk for you made me smile.
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Thanks, Sandra! It’s funny that so many of us struggle with this, based on the comments. You’d think it would be worth redesigning supermarkets to help us!
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I love this, Lesley: “He brought the height and I brought the observation skills, but by working together we both got what we needed.” Such a great example of how we all need each other!
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Thanks, Lois! It was a good reminder!
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