This post is written to link with Five Minute Friday: write for five minutes on a one-word prompt. The prompt today is “chapter.”
Yesterday, I was talking to a friend who seems to be going through a difficult chapter in life. In reality, it seems like it has been several difficult chapters. Just as one situation is resolved, something else comes up, and for over two years it has been relentless.
The thing that has struck me throughout this whole journey has been my friend’s faith. It is said that when we are squeezed, it is what is inside us that comes out, and I have been so impressed, and challenged at times, to see that what has come out in my friend’s life is not despair or self-pity, but a deep trust in God that is carrying her through.
This is not to say it has been easy. It has been horribly difficult and painful, but her strength has come from keeping sight of the big picture.
When we’re in the middle of a difficult chapter, it is easy to focus on our circumstances, to allow ourselves to be dragged down, but I’ve seen for myself the difference it makes when we look beyond our circumstances and look to the God who is in charge of the story.
As I spoke with my friend, she expressed sorrow for people who seem to have everything in worldly terms – success, money, good health… – but who really have nothing because they don’t know God. Despite the challenges she has faced, and continues to face, she knows that she has what really matters.
And, no matter how difficult the chapter we’re in, if we are in Christ, we know how the story ends.
We can be strengthened by the hope of the ultimate happy ending.
“I heard a loud shout from the throne, saying, “Look, God’s home is now among his people! He will live with them, and they will be his people. God himself will be with them. He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever.” And the one sitting on the throne said, “Look, I am making everything new!” (Revelation 21:3-5 NLT)
It’s not so much the happy ending
that strengthen faith and hope
when my days have gone past mending;
it’s something else that lets me cope
with the frightful storm-tossed sea
in which I know I’m meant to drown.
Something turns fear to comedy,
and nothing ever gets me down.
I wish I knew just what it was,
that I could at last explain
my levity to others ’cause
it seems to really give them pain
that I laugh at my life now constricted;
will I laugh at them when they’re afflicted?
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I think humour can help a lot as we go through difficult times. I definitely appreciate your sense of humour!
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Such a beautiful testimony, Lesley, and an encouragement to abide in Him no matter what our circumstances.
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Thanks, Lisa! Yes, the way my friend has consistently turned to God encourages me to do the same.
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God sees the strength in us even when we don’t and He knows that when we live in the strength He gives, He gets the glory, others see Him and we get to rest in the One who loves us more than we could ever comprehend.
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Yes, if we find our strength in him that can be a powerful witness to others.
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Hard to live out those hard chapters, but praise God for His strength through them! X
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Yes, it can be a powerful witness to others when they see him strengthening people in difficult times.
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Strengthened by the hope of the ultimate happy ending – how true! Very well said. Visiting from FMF#8
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Thanks, Kym! It makes a big difference to know how the story ends.
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This is so encouraging, Lesley. Thank God for the bigger perspective He can give us when we are in a difficult chapter!
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Thanks, Bethany! That perspective makes a big difference.
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Your friend sounds like an amazing witness. She inspires me to try and do better.
Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks, Sandra! She really is amazing and she inspires me too.
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